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Its no surprise that every man fascinates about having a threesome - him, his girl, and some lovely second girl...but what about women?
I would be hard pressed to find one woman who wouldn't admit (albeit after a couple of glasses of wine) that they had had fantasized about what it would be like to be with another woman. Whether or not they would actually go through it depends on how comfortable they are with sex and with their partner.
But let's for the sake of discussion, say that the woman is okay with it as well. Then how do you go about finding that elusive second sexy lady? Well there are two options: a friend or a stranger.
A friend is a bit of dangerous ground as you wouldn't want to jeopardize that relationship. However, if you know each other well enough, you should theoretically know what she would say. The rest is history...have fun!
A stranger seems easier, but it can prove difficult to find the elusive mixture of sexual comfort and single status. How can you tell who is "in" and how do you ask? Well, you can use the dating websites. There are many catered to this lifestyle and you can find plenty of girls to talk to. But note! This elusive girl is highly sought after and it could take some time to find someone to share your love den with you and your partner.
Another, seemingly harder, method is just to ask. The first couple of times I was in this situation I froze up. I can't ask her that!! What if she says no and laughs?? It took me a while to realize that I shouldn't care. We're never going to see her again, why not live life and give it a shot?
The best way is to have the girl approach the girl. It is not as threatening and it is much more believable. The new woman is not worrying that this is just a single guy trying out a new way to hit on a girl.
The delivery should be confident, simple and complimentary.
"Excuse me, but my husband/boyfriend and I were just noticing how beautiful you are. We would love to spend some time with you if you might be interested?"
You would be surprised how often you get a positive answer! If not, leave her with your number and an invitation to call you. By then you have definitely peaked her interest and I wouldn't be surprised if she calls!
Now go have an adventure!
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